20 November 2008

Hold Fast!

"And the God of all grace,
who called you to His eternal glory in Christ,
after you have suffered a little while,
will Himself restore you
and make you strong, firm and steadfast."
1 Pet 5:10


Why is that? Why "after you have suffered a little while"? The question of why God allows suffering is a weighty theological issue to which I do not attempt to have a simple answer beyond that it is pain that causes our hearts and wills to bend toward Christlikeness. But, I think it is important to dwell upon this subject, to ask God about it, to study Scripture and find out what the Word says about pain.

And, actually, it says a lot.

(Just look up "Suffering" in your concordance and this is what you get... Job 36:15, Ps 22:24, Isa 53:3&11, Lam 1:12, Mk 8:31, Lk 24:26&46,Ac 5:41, Ro 5:3, 2 Co 1:6, Php 1:29, 2 Tim 1:8, Heb 2:9-10& 18, Heb 9:26, Heb 13:3, 1 Pet 2:21, 1 Pet 3:17, 1 Pet 4:1,12&16, 1 Pet 5:9)

If you want a current snapshot of beauty through suffering, read Brent and Tish, who are both walking through very challenging trials resting in Jesus with assurance and grace.

I've had this post on pain brewing for a while, since so many of our dear friends are enduring a season of tremendous suffering. Then the Tea Fire tore through our beloved Westmont College and Montecito, and the LA County and Orange County fires consumed so many homes and lives in our own neck of the woods... Then Poppy preached on it Sunday. (It was awesome. You can get it at VineyardNewport.org.)

What came to mind was the many people I've watched over the years who went through fiery trials of their own and chose stalwart righteousness... and those that didn't.

Michael has been in contact with a dear old friend who has dived completely into sin, bordering on senility it seems, which started when he went through several years of serious pain. One of our long-time mentors and precious friends completely ditched his faith, his wife and his family in a colossally damaging way after going through a couple of years of intense pressure and trial. They failed the test! After so many years of serving Christ... they threw their hands up and just walked away.

(Just so you know, I've certainly been there myself. Failed, I mean. Every single item on my "List of Foolish Behavior & Decisions that I Can Never Take Back and that Relentlessly Haunt Me" - even though I know that Christ has forgiven me - I did during a season of trial, pain, grief, and exhaustion. So, my heart breaks for those who have done equally poorly.)

On the other hand we have many truly beautiful examples in our lives... On Sunday we prayed with a sweet friend who's enduring the nightmare of "amicable divorce" when all he wants is his wife back, and yet he's choosing to be a shining example of Christlikeness. The Alexanders,who recently discovered that their beautiful boy Abe has cerebral palsy. Tish, who lost her mom to cancer last week. The Riggs,whose precious little Abby is fighting leukemia. Our friend S, who discovered that her beloved husband of 24 years has been having affair after affair. The Ramoses, whose infant daughter Darcy Anne died in October from Trisomy 18.

"We were promised sufferings. They were part of the program. We were even told, 'Blessed are they that mourn.'" ~C.S. Lewis

PAIN! Pain shows us what we're really made of. It matures us, softens us, refines us as through fire. It tosses us to our knees before Jesus.

But, it can just as easily make us determined to turn our lives upside down and inside out just to not feel it anymore. It can invite us to make poor choices that we may regret forever. It can seduce us into becoming embittered at God, at our spouse, at friends, at the world.

"You must submit to supreme suffering
in order to discover the completion of joy."
~John Calvin

So, we have to choose what to do with suffering. We have to look square in the face of our worst torment and say, "I will HOLD FAST! You cannot make me wander from the path ever nearer to my Savior, Jesus Christ!" Oh, that makes me cry just to write it down, much less to say it out loud.

HOLD FAST! Do not be afraid! Resist temptation! Dig into the Bible! Do NOT give up!

When your spouse strays toward a younger, prettier model - hold fast! When you lose your job - hold fast! When your friends or family reject you - hold fast! When you have a miscarriage after trying to have a baby for so long - hold fast! Or, when your adoption gets delayed and delayed - hold fast! When your health fails - hold fast! When you lose your home to fire or the financial bottom dropping out - hold fast! When someone you love dies - hold fast! When life goes pear-shaped - hold fast! When your heart gets broken and you feel like you can't even get out of bed much less face the day - hold fast!

HOLD FAST!




10 comments:

emily said...

Holding fast my sweet friend! Suffering is indeed sooo hard yet I can honestly say that I have never felt the Presence of Christ more! He has a way of making suffering incredibly beautiful..........only by His sweet grace.

Love you.

The Roberts Family said...

Thank You, Laurie. This so met me right where I'm at. I look back in my life and am SO GRATEFUL to the Lord for all the times He's proven Himself faithful .... not because things got all better, but because HE was GOOD, even when my life was shattered. Even now ... as we wait and wait and wait on all the unknowns around our lives and transition .... HE is so good. But, boy there's those days a girl gets tempted to just sink into the pit and not come back up and serve her family. This post so resonated with my heart. Thanks, dear sister. Blessings, Shelly

Haus said...

You are my hero my darling! I HOLD FAST for and with and to YOU!!!

be_a_Mary said...

amen. so beautifully written and a wonderful reminder.

FHL said...

This is a great post Laurie and I intend to come back and delve into some of your links you posted.

I've noticed that my theme song through this entire adoption has become, "I'll praise you in this storm...." I sing it in the shower, it's on my ringtone, I hear it floating through my thoughts and humming it around the house. God is so faithful when we turn our praise towards HIM. Even if the pain doesn't receed, he'll not let us walk it alone!

Hugs to you my friend,
M~

Tish said...

AWESOME, AWESOME post!!! I was just praying for some of those people you mentionedin this blog (and also Lincoln!)! And I think that is something we cannot forget theimportance of...our prayers for others. Iknow that in this sad time concerning my mom, I was held up in prayer by dear friends...like you! It truly makes a difference.

I also think that it is a matter of daily seeking Him, hiding His word in your heart, and being ibedient in the little things so that, when a big trial comes, you have a pattern of holding fast in your life. Of course, this is all by God's doing...He helps us to hold fast, to stay near, to undertsand His truth....the question is do we really want it?

Wolfemom said...

Thank you for this! Great post!!

Kristi J said...

Wow...powerful post!!! All so true!!! I posted last night of two friends that have been\are going through hard times..this is so good to read for us all..thanks for a great one, kristi

darci said...

wow laurie, what a powerful post. I actually broke out in goosebumps reading it. ahh, suffering..it is thru true pain that I have clung more tightly to Jesus. Seems like my thick head NEEDS to go thru pain to learn a thing. There is so much pain..and so much of people crying out "why?" you're so right..we are called to suffering, I think..that we may become more like Jesus. but it's SO HARD. I know when my dear uncle died, young, of a brain tumour, my cousin expressed that it was the first time she'd ever really LONGED for Heaven..and I think that's what pain does..it either reminds us that this is not our home and makes us cling more tightly to our Saviour, or it turns us away and makes us run.
Thank you for such a beautiful post."
I will HOLD FAST! You cannot make me wander from the path ever nearer to my Savior, Jesus Christ!"

Rebecca of "China, Baby!" said...

What an awesome reminder for me this week to HOLD FAST to my anchor, Jesus Christ!!! Thank you for the encouragement Laurie - my heart needed it!

xoxo