tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352133762195171297.post5334569340147685366..comments2023-09-23T06:13:26.824-07:00Comments on As For Me And My Haus: MaybeLaurziehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07296612994620890887noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352133762195171297.post-66377052880608210842008-02-28T09:16:00.000-08:002008-02-28T09:16:00.000-08:00Oops--I didn't know it was rude to ask people if t...Oops--I didn't know it was rude to ask people if they wanted more children. Is it still rude if I am enthusiastic and supportive about whatever the answer is?ErinOrtlundhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04291140636032595373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352133762195171297.post-16304294920790567172008-02-24T10:05:00.000-08:002008-02-24T10:05:00.000-08:00yes i agree people always seem to have an opinion....yes i agree people always seem to have an opinion. most people we encounter are of the "wow you have a ton of kids" variety, not the "you're supposed to have as many kids as possible" types. <BR/><BR/>to me it comes down to, are we seeing children as the blessing that they are? if so then we will rejoice with each birth and each adoption that we see. and as for ourselves, i think we have to discern what God would have us do. and hey maybe there's more than one right answer, i don't know!Brianna Heldthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08224838737334231065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352133762195171297.post-11260038000986617912008-02-22T03:48:00.000-08:002008-02-22T03:48:00.000-08:00OH, I can't wait to hear! I would be one of those...OH, I can't wait to hear! <BR/><BR/>I would be one of those people that asks if people are planning to have more children. Because, I love big families and I think everyone else should too :)Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17479635873494501024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352133762195171297.post-8966706895520060972008-02-20T21:09:00.000-08:002008-02-20T21:09:00.000-08:00Although we're not in the "volume" game yet (but I...Although we're not in the "volume" game yet (but I hope to be!), I share in your astonishment over the things that will come out of people's mouths! Can't wait to meet you all this summer at the blog union!... if not, prior =)Drew Carey Showhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06007515477570857582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352133762195171297.post-27098379387901389392008-02-20T19:18:00.000-08:002008-02-20T19:18:00.000-08:00Rebecca, you did such a lovely job on my blog! TH...Rebecca, you did such a lovely job on my blog! THANK YOU! Love ya, girl!<BR/>xoxoLaurziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07296612994620890887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352133762195171297.post-13087125857312233512008-02-20T18:57:00.000-08:002008-02-20T18:57:00.000-08:00By the way... what a pretty Easter blog. :) That...By the way... what a pretty Easter blog. :) That is one nice kit you picked there girlfriend. Hee hee.Rebecca Lilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05963057412380331638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352133762195171297.post-63998207229408502282008-02-20T18:56:00.000-08:002008-02-20T18:56:00.000-08:00Laurie, I so enjoyed this post... I could complete...Laurie, I so enjoyed this post... I could completely relate, as we get the sideways glances too (4 kids, adopting ANOTHER, and NOT saying we're done??) I can't stand it when people comment about our family size. It makes me want to adopt 15 kids just to make their heads explode. LOL.<BR/><BR/>RebeccaRebecca Lilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05963057412380331638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352133762195171297.post-6640148507414431362008-02-20T16:24:00.000-08:002008-02-20T16:24:00.000-08:00And another thing missy! I saw your comment on Em...And another thing missy! I saw your comment on Em's blog about going to ET on a trip to "build stuff".... I cannot get my head around it fully now since we don't even have our babe, but as soon as these next few things unfold, it will be my "mission" to find a way back to Ethiopia... And how in the world could you even think that you wouldn't be coming with us! I don't know if Em and Moody are even interested, but I seriously think we could easily build a team or a few teams with the network that we have to go back! :) Let's just plan on it happening semi-soon!Nicholashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10407367714914960156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352133762195171297.post-78204876875915636132008-02-20T16:19:00.000-08:002008-02-20T16:19:00.000-08:00Oh Laurie, Laurie, Laurie.... I think we both know...Oh Laurie, Laurie, Laurie.... I think we both know where this story goes my friend!<BR/><BR/>And I can't wait to see it all unfold........... xo LoriNicholashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10407367714914960156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352133762195171297.post-37100645737612737882008-02-20T14:33:00.000-08:002008-02-20T14:33:00.000-08:00Laurie,Thank you for that post. I don't get the s...Laurie,<BR/>Thank you for that post. I don't get the same question you have been getting because we are bringing our very first child home from Ethiopia soon. I can relate, however, to the fact that people ask VERY personal questions and see nothing wrong with it. It feels good to know that I'm not alone with this frustration.<BR/><BR/>I enjoy reading your blog and got chills and a lump in my throat when I read that last paragraph!!<BR/>Good luck to you and your family!<BR/><BR/>Dee Dee<BR/>(AGCI family)Coming to Amharicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16895733839460820186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352133762195171297.post-57302375412218084212008-02-20T13:42:00.000-08:002008-02-20T13:42:00.000-08:00Good post, Laurie. The social ettiquette these da...Good post, Laurie. The social ettiquette these days is astounding. If you've never seen me cry, if you've never seen me wet haired & makeup-less, if you've never witnessed C & me in a tiff (a pure delight), you aren't close enough to me to ask me if we're done having children. :) In defense, though, I honestly think it is an etiquette problem. There is no forbidden topic these days. We know each other's age, sexual preference, income, mortgage payments, and vacation expenses, etc. It's getting blurry out there!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352133762195171297.post-85079193023786066682008-02-20T12:13:00.000-08:002008-02-20T12:13:00.000-08:00I found your blog while researching Ethiopian adop...I found your blog while researching Ethiopian adoption and I just had to comment on this post. As a family of four, we get this question all the time. And we do intend to adopt another little girl soon, but we do not have a magic number of children that we are trying to get to. I now tell people " I will never say we are done because I never know what God has planned for us!" Your kids are gorgeous by the way!Jessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12115124702247359232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352133762195171297.post-87965867267611351212008-02-20T11:40:00.000-08:002008-02-20T11:40:00.000-08:00Excellent post! When we rec'd our baby's referral...Excellent post! When we rec'd our baby's referral file, there were some serious medical concerns (even though we specifically stated on app and in homestudy a request for healthy). It took us a month to officially accept the referral, but I tell people it was NOT like we were taking that time to "decide." It was NOT our decision to make. God alone has that right. We took the time to make sure we were in His will, and that His will was this child. Even though at moments I am overwhelmed and sleep deprived with just one child, I hope that God has more planned for our family!Tishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05025104225794869065noreply@blogger.com